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有人認為在公開場合給小孩難堪,會傷了他們的自尊,但你認為在你的小孩的一生中,他所遇到的每個人都會顧及他的自尊嗎?他的老師?他的老闆,主管們?每一位都會顧及你小孩的自尊嗎?被老師,或老闆,主管在眾人面前斥責,而想不開的,大有人在,既然這樣,那還倒不如有時可在幾個人面前,就直接指責小孩的過錯,就像打預防針一樣,以後若是遇到愛罵人的老師或老闆,也比較有免疫力;而且有些小孩仗著爸媽不敢在別人面前罵他們,怕丟臉,就肆無忌憚,有時倒可以在幾個人面前就給他們一點教訓,不要被小孩吃得死死的,你若不趁他還小的時候管住他,等他到了叛逆期的時候,想管就不容易了!寵豬舉灶,寵子不孝,以前人的智慧是有許多例子可以應證的!!

Some people think that criticizing children in public will hurt their self-esteem, but do you think in your children's life, each person he encounters will care about their self-esteem?  Their teachers? Their bosses?  Each of them will worry about your kids' self-respect?  People who blame by teachers or bosses in public and then suicide are many.  That being the case, it is better that you can sometimes correct children's mistakes directly in front of a few people.  It is like vaccinating, and in the future, if your children encountere teachers or bosses who love to curse, they will be more immune.  Some children rely on that their parents cannot blame them in public, because it is embarrassing.  The children will be reckless.  Parents can sometimes give them a lesson in front of a few people, and do not overindulge them.  You have to teach them when they are young.  At their rebellious period, it is difficult to guide them.  Spoiled children cannot obey their parents.  Elder's experiences can be examples.